I often see posts on Facebook where parents are wondering where the time went before telling everyone that their child is now whatever age they are. I’ve done similar many times I’m sure.
The perception is that you blink and then somehow find your kids are no longer kids, you are three stone heavier and persistently feel the need to nap. Just me? OK.
I think I know where the time goes. It passes at the same rate whether you are doing something you hate or something you love, it’s just that you just tend to block out the former and so your memory recalls only a percentage of all the days, minutes and seconds you’ve spent with your kids. It’s a bit like childbirth. Lord knows I was mentally scarred by the pain of horror of it all the first time around. How Rebecca came to be I don’t know, as after all that sitting around and waiting for Emily to pop out, you would have thought it had put me off for life!
This time perception confusion is just one of life’s mysteries, like why I’m still paying the mobile phone bills for my daughters every month even though they are 19 and 21!
Yes, Emily turns 21 next week and we have been out this weekend to celebrate that with some of the family. As usual, a Williams celebration involved food, and probably more than was healthy or necessary. The main benefit of this milestone is that she’ll be able to come to Jellyrolls with us when we go on holiday next year! This is great news as up until now we’ve had to leave the kids outside with of bottle of pop and a rape alarm.
I think she will need to carry ID well into her forties though as she has never looked her age. This burden will become easier to tolerate as she gets older I’m sure.
It is only natural for me to treat any meal out as an excuse to pretend I’m doing a trip report and take pictures of everyone and more importantly their food. For anyone localish we went to the Retreat in Adlington and it was lovely.
Here are Rebecca and Tom doing a good job of being cheerful even though food has not yet arrived.
Emily and her Nana…..
Food at last, this was Emily’s Beef Nachos appetiser (yes I said appetiser, what of it?)
Louise and I had Halloumi Fritters, but I believe there is an over the counter cream for that….
Tom, quite rightly ordered using the “which dish is the biggest” method and went for an appetiser of “Meat Platter”. He also had half of Rebecca’s garlic bread and finished off Emily’s nachos.
Most of us had the Jack Daniels Bourbon Beef Skewer, which is not a euphemism.
A few cocktails later….
I am clearly out of practice as I’d started my dark chocolate cheesecake before remembering to take a photo…
Emily had Creme Brulee, which I finished off.
Once we were back home the inevitable Disney themed cake was set on fire with twenty-one candles.
Emily’s birthday is not actually till Tuesday and she shares it with Oli. Look how happy he is about it!
Emily with her Grandma who is clearly off her nut on champagne and frosting.
Emily picked up quite a few of her presents last night with a couple to come on Tuesday no doubt. Her main present from us is a trip to London in a couple of weeks to watch Les Miserables in the West End. She may never stop crying!
Happy Birthday Pud. Here come the usual collection of photos that will embarrass you…..
Till the next time…….
5 thoughts on “A Little Less 21 Candles….”
Love the Retreat on Chorley New Road in Bolton and keep saying we must try Adlington. All looks lovely.
Happy birthday Emily!
Happy Birthday to Emily x
Happy Birthday Emily, hope you have a wonderful day on Tuesday! x
Happy birthday Emily.
Well done all.
Steve & Di.
Happy birthday Emily